It’s not awkward if your brain is wired well for it. Specifically: I realized I just… don’t get jealous, really. Like, ever. And I’m happy when my partner is having a wonderful time, regardless of whether I’m there. The main point for me in a partnership is that we enrich each others lives. Pretty much everything else beyond that, I consider flexible and negotiable.
Yeah. I care deeply for people and the physical piece is a tiny part of that. I have never tried a poly relationship because nobody I have been with was interested, but in casual relationships I never minded my partner having other things going on, as long as it didn’t end up closing me out emotionally.
It’s not awkward if your brain is wired well for it. Specifically: I realized I just… don’t get jealous, really. Like, ever. And I’m happy when my partner is having a wonderful time, regardless of whether I’m there. The main point for me in a partnership is that we enrich each others lives. Pretty much everything else beyond that, I consider flexible and negotiable.
Yeah. I care deeply for people and the physical piece is a tiny part of that. I have never tried a poly relationship because nobody I have been with was interested, but in casual relationships I never minded my partner having other things going on, as long as it didn’t end up closing me out emotionally.