my debian KDE processes all together idle at around 2.5 gb, you must have a crapload of autostart background processes?

when I have youtube in firefox open, that takes up 4 gigs by itself

I feel ya, I am still trying to figure out what an ActivityPub is.

This madness isn’t gonna stop until they start actually getting hit by cars, and not just saying they are so they can shoot and murder the driver