arch is annoying to maintain and whil it is mostly stable, you do get some breaking updates here and there. It’s not a bad choice, it just doesn’t makeuch sense for a headless server.
Ubuntu server, just why? Works fine but why?
a not headless fedora, worked fine but still annoyed me sometimes
proxmox (debian based) works great, annoyed me to manage vm resources.
headless debian. Just works, I rarely if ever encounter OS issues. The only downside is that not everything can be found in the debian repos, but there is almost always an option to add a repo for whatever you want.
My setup is mostly dockers so keep that in mind.
But really, if something works for you go with it. If you are looking to change, I would recommend debian.
My personal journey:
My setup is mostly dockers so keep that in mind.
But really, if something works for you go with it. If you are looking to change, I would recommend debian.