Across the coalition, some supporters who once viewed Trump as MAGA’s greatest asset are beginning to question whether he’s become its biggest liability.
The midterm losses amounted to more than a repudiation of Trump. They were a referendum on the political and cultural movement he built. A defining force in American politics that began as a campaign slogan during Trump’s 2016 presidential run now faces a potentially existential reckoning after voters disillusioned with soaring fuel prices, the Iran war and Washington corruption delivered Democrats decisive congressional majorities.
I’m sorry about your loss of friends. Your comment about knowing exactly what your friend of 20 years would say in any situation and realizing he cannot be saved really resonates with me.
I also hope the other commenter (and Altemeyer) are right, although I have not read the book. I have a glimmer of hope for us, particularly after seeing the results of the midterms. But the fact that we’re having this conversation suggests we all know the fight is nowhere near done. Esoecially as long as billionaires exist.
Stay strong. You are not alone, as much as it may sometimes feel that way. The more people I talk openly with about these subjects, the more common experiences I find, even with people I would not have suspected felt similarly. All the advice to “find community” seems to be pretty accurate, albeit challenging.
Bob Altemeyer’s The Authoritarians book is the one thing I would recommend to someone like yourself, they demystify the mindset of these people in a way that doesn’t condone them or sugarcoat anything, but still manages to make them back into comprehensible human beings. The author’s passed away but his site offers them for free, super recommend. I should reread them, apparently I haven’t digested everything.
Unrelated tangent about another book in the same mental category for me (transformative, reframes some of my life’s struggles in a way that makes it easier to process, clear and concise professional writing style) is Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. These two books had all the tools I need to begin to heal from the sorry predicament of being me, in this time and place. Maybe you’d feel the same? Pardon the random too-familiar sidebar.
Thank you for the excellent recommendations. I’ve been looking for a new line of books, and these sound like a good fit. It’s hard for me to imagine forgiving any conservatives right now. I think my anger for these overt comic book villains makes it hard to see alternative views of them, but I’d love to find some glimmer of hope that there is a peaceful solution to all this.
More importantly, you can’t really process things emotionally without understanding why they happened, if you’re anything like me. Knowing why society is fucked helps me get to a better place mentally and - in my wildest dreams, puts me in a position to make any changes that leave the world better than I found it. By the same token, learning why I grew up too early and always felt emotionally lonely can hopefully help me raise my kid so he doesn’t have that issue. These books help. <3